Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success and the fulcrum of individual success. As far as children are concerned, self-confidence is one of the main indicators to evaluate the mental health of children. Most children lack self-confidence or lack of self-confidence. In recent years, young teachers have raised the importance of children's self-confidence. This paper, based on the analysis of the reasons for the lack of self-confidence in young children, expounds on how to cultivate the self-confidence of young children effectively.
Children, self-confidence and cultivation
"Self-confidence is a positive emotional orientation that is guided by positive self-evaluation and is expected to be respected by others, the collective and the community."
(1) "self-confidence is the cornerstone of success, is each person's career success to stand, and if one has no confidence, it is impossible to go a long way, has the self-confidence can make the resistance to the power, overcome difficulties to gain victory".
（2）It can be seen that "self-confidence is a person's full understanding and evaluation of their own strength, which is a positive moral emotion and a good psychological quality".
（3）.Peo's educator tao xingzhi said: "with the children as tianjin fill ducks with bits of knowledge, not to give them more keys, so that they can free opens the treasure of culture Treasury and the universe." We encourage children to learn, cultivate children's learning ability, cultivate love, brave, overcome difficulties, polite and discipline of moral behavior and so on a series of education behavior, but can ignore the influence of children's personality development and a core problem - confidence. Self-confidence is one of the main indicators to evaluate the mental health of children. The cultivation of self-confidence is the most important part of education mental health.
"Research shows that: 4 ~ 5 years old is the coordinated development of man's pride and inferiority comx optimal period, namely, self-esteem, self-confidence to cultivate critical period, cultivate children's self-confidence, in this time period to sow the seeds of confidence, children is the key to the formation of the healthy personality. Confidence can make children produce active activity. The bold exploration, positive thinking, willing to communicate with peo, often keep asant mood."
(4) if a child lacks confidence, often shy, afraid to express, they will balk, afraid of difficulties, did not dare to try, its cognitive ability, practical ability, communication ability and movement ability development is slow, and easy to form a timid, cowardice, dependence is strong, indecision, etc. Characteristics. If a child has the self-confidence, a sense of security, independence and sense of worth, achievement, higher self acceptance and good judgment, so he will be happy to try, dare to face, and actively participate in various activities, and actively communicate with others, to establish a good relationship with his companions, gradually forming optimistic, brave, sociable, independent personality traits.